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You cant cure measles by treating the rash

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The fellowships admit that we don’t have a true self within that can heal and regain control over our lives, and that this is the reason ...

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The fellowships admit that we don’t have a true self within that can heal and regain control over our lives, and that this is the reason – not all of our unresolved childhood traumas! – that our life has become so disturbed and dysfunctional. We admit that the root of our problem is alcohol, not all the trauma we experienced as children and cannot acknowledge, and that’s why we come to the fellowships. If only we can cure the symptom then everything will be okay! (So untrue!) You cant cure measles by treating the rash <div class="zemanta-related" style="clear: both; margin-top: 20px; overflow: hidden;">
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You cant cure measles by treating the rash

The fellowships admit that we don’t have a true self within that can heal and regain control over our lives, and that this is the reason ...

Perpetuating the addictive cycle of self-delusion.

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Title: Perpetuating the addictive cycle of self-delusion.
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Avoiding the deepest levels of pain is part of the fellowships mentality. They replace the depression of the alcoholic with the grandio...

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Avoiding the deepest levels of pain is part of the fellowships mentality. They replace the depression of the alcoholic with the grandiosity and dissociation of so-called recovery. This is a spiritual step backwards . The Fellowships believes that full spirituality is attainable by simply admitting the damage you’ve done to others and making amends. This is untrue. Admitting your past wrongs does lessen the cycle of guilt and shame, but does not resolve your own traumas – the damage done to you by your parents. Traumas must be addressed and fully grieved and mourned for deeper healing to take place.<br />
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Any program, that thinks you can heal without fully exhuming, grieving, and ultimately healing your traumas is siding with your abusive parents and perpetuating the addictive cycle of self-delusion.</div>

Perpetuating the addictive cycle of self-delusion.

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The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members.

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Title: The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members.
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The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members. But more so it protects alcoholics themselves from feeling th...

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The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members. But more so it protects alcoholics themselves from feeling their deeper pain, because anyone who learns the full truth of his parents’ cruelties is in for a horribly painful ride. Denying this truth may prevent some from relapsing, but it will prevent everyone from becoming fully recovered.</div>

The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members.

The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members. But more so it protects alcoholics themselves from feeling th...

Alcoholics were not born so: they were created.

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Title: Alcoholics were not born so: they were created.
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Alcoholism is not the disease: the unenlightened family is the disease. Alcoholics were not born so: they were created. They drink them...

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<span style="font-family: Courier New, Courier, monospace; font-size: large;">Alcoholism is not the disease: the unenlightened family is the disease. Alcoholics were not born so: they were created. They drink themselves into oblivion not because of bad genetics but because of the traumas resulting from childhood abuse, neglect, and rejection. No one raised in a truly loving home – whatever his chromosomes – could become an alcoholic. No one who had full connection with his true self – a fully non-traumatised person – would ever even want to experience even the mildest of dissociative pleasures of drinking alcohol at all.<br /></span>Related articles<br />
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Alcoholics were not born so: they were created.

Alcoholism is not the disease: the unenlightened family is the disease. Alcoholics were not born so: they were created. They drink them...

The fellowships has helped millions to stop drinking/druging

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Title: The fellowships has helped millions to stop drinking/druging
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The fellowships has helped millions to stop drinking/druging, which is a vital step for everyone on the path to recovery, but its inheren...

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The fellowships has helped millions to stop drinking/druging, which is a vital step for everyone on the path to recovery, but its inherent limits as a program prevent its members from becoming fully recovered. The fellowships allows alcoholics a fellowship of peers, but it philosophy denies the full truth of the causes and effects – and thus cannot provide full awareness as to their recovery. As such, if its members go too far in expressing their true selves, they will not be accepted by the group.<br />
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<span style="font-family: georgia;"><span style="color: black; font-size: 12pt;">Being in our recovery doesn’t mean we are a pushover. In fact, many times in our recovery we need to set boundaries.</span></span></div>
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 <span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;"> The key is balance. Too many boundaries and you close off; no boundaries and you lose yourself.</span></div>
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 <span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">We have an innate desire to help other people, especially those who are down and out. </span><span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;"> We have to learn a valuable lesson: the boundaries of self-worth</span><span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">.</span></div>
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 <span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;"><b><i>We can become so focused on others recovery and ideas that we are ignoring our own.</i></b></span></div>
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 <span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">These are painful and crippling lesson for us to learn emotionally, physically, spiritually and financially. We become bankrupt across the board. </span><span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Of course it is in giving that we receive, but that starts with compassion for ourselves.</span></div>
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<span style="font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;"><strong>If we are not full of self-worth in our recovery, we will have nothing to give away. We</strong> learn that boundaries are very important. We learn that we had to make full contact with our child within before we could be fulfilling in our relationship with ourselves .</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">We have to learn this lesson through pain and suffering, which becomes a path of joy. Our ego hates the transformation from that dark place to our life, but each time our ego gets mad, my child within celebrates.</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Now, We are living our true recovery. It started through self-<span class="il">love for my child</span>, then grew from giving <span class="il">loving-Kindness</span> away and is sustained by a balance of giving to myself and to others. We are experiencing more consistent joy in our live as a result of those painful years of abandonment of our child and we would experience them all over again if I had to, because on the other side, life is beautiful liberate and full of amazing answers..</span></div>
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<span style="color: black; font-family: georgia; font-size: 12pt;">Are you living your life for others and abandoning yourself in the process?</span></div>
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People pleasing. Not wanting to miss out on the fun. Restlessness. Overthinking. Scared to be me in company. Scared to be me alone. Frightened of offending someone.

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Title: People pleasing. Not wanting to miss out on the fun. Restlessness. Overthinking. Scared to be me in company. Scared to be me alone. Frightened of offending someone.
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Revolutionary Sobriety.It does not matter what you label it – alcoholism, alcohol dependence, alcohol misuse, binge-drinking or whatever

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When you quit drinking alcohol, you will change.

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Lessons in Truth - Affirmations To affirm anything is to assert positively that it is so, even in the face of all contrary evidence. ...

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To affirm anything is to assert positively that it is so, even in the face of all contrary evidence. We may not be able to see how, by our simply affirming a thing to be true, a thing that to all human reasoning or sight does not seem to be true at all, we can bring this thing to pass; but we can compel ourselves to cease all futile quibbling and go to work to prove the rule, each one in his own life.</blockquote>
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