A definition of interdependence is: “a reciprocal relation between interdependent entities." The key word here is: "reciprocal.&...
The Child Within never changes; other people change all the time.
Now that we are on the road of recovery
Now that we are on the road of recovery (that is, not dissociated) and no longer need alcohol to achieve a dissociated state, we underst...
The fellowships force ourselves down a blind alley, and further cutting ourself off the from deeper root of ourself.
The Stages institute self-reflection on where our acting out behaviour might have come from we make an acknowledgement that our disturbed ...
To not aim for perfection, but rather express ourselves as we are, strong, scared and in human form.
No one is perfect. No one. Not ONE self-help person you look up to is the perfect image that you imagine them to be. In many ways, those...
The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions
The most common ego identifications have to do with possessions, the work you do, social status and recognition, knowledge and education,...
Recovery is not imagining figures of spirituality
Recovery is not imagining figures of spirituality but making the child withins darkness conscious
You cant cure measles by treating the rash
The fellowships admit that we don’t have a true self within that can heal and regain control over our lives, and that this is the reason ...
Perpetuating the addictive cycle of self-delusion.
Avoiding the deepest levels of pain is part of the fellowships mentality. They replace the depression of the alcoholic with the grandio...
The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members.
The fellowships protects the abusive parents, many of whom are its members. But more so it protects alcoholics themselves from feeling th...
Alcoholics were not born so: they were created.
Alcoholism is not the disease: the unenlightened family is the disease. Alcoholics were not born so: they were created. They drink them...
The fellowships has helped millions to stop drinking/druging
The fellowships has helped millions to stop drinking/druging, which is a vital step for everyone on the path to recovery, but its inheren...
Being in our recovery doesn’t mean we are a pushover.
Being in our recovery doesn’t mean we are a pushover. In fact, many times in our recovery we need to set boundaries. The key is bal...
People pleasing. Not wanting to miss out on the fun. Restlessness. Overthinking. Scared to be me in company. Scared to be me alone. Frightened of offending someone.
People pleasing. Not wanting to miss out on the fun. Restlessness. Overthinking. Scared to be me in company. Scared to be me alone. Frigh...
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